Who among us has not fantasized about either being a call girl or ordering one? Television & movies have played this up so often we cannot help but wonder what it would be like. Many of you likely have already sampled this type of action before now. I encourage you NOT to share that with your lover.
This fantasy is for those unfamiliar with the process. This is not a fantasy limited to just women being the entertainment of the moment. If you like, reverse the process and your lover can pretend to order herself a man. After all, this is good fantasy fun to reignite love with sex anticipation & delight. It is playtime.
Years ago, a young couple in their late twenties came to me to seek help. They had fallen in love at fourteen, been together since then, marrying at eighteen and never been with anyone else ever.
They longed to try someone different, had discussed it with a variety of their friends and everyone had told them if they ever shared another bed the “trust would be broken and could never be regained. It would be over for them.”
Truly they agreed they loved each other so much but in honesty, both were still curious. I encouraged them to discuss it thoroughly and even pray for an answer that would help them and not destroy the marriage and the love they treasured so much. We set another appointment and in three months they came back, very excited to tell me they had found the solution.
First, they located the “Red Light” prostitution district and began to visit the area daily at different times, noting when the traffic there was prime time and the choices were everywhere.
Secondly, they shared what their idea of being a “Pro” was like and what they were looking for. It was agreed that involving their friends or even discussing it would only ultimately destroy those friendships. Not an option for them.
Then they visited specific costume shops for topless dancers and made a game out of her trying on the hot clothes he picked out, modeling them for him there, (also building heated reactions for a future time), and took them home. They agreed to save them for the fantasy moment.
They picked the most abandoned day in the “Red Light District,” and the quietest time. That was exactly the day they chose to play out this fantasy together. Saturday afternoon at three p.m. before the evening action seemed to be the busiest, was the most deserted moment for them.
Together they excitedly drove down to the exact spot that normally thrives with hookers and circled the blocks around the area. No one was in sight at all. On the third round-the-block trip he pulled up to the normally busiest corner and dropped her off. She was all decked out in the hottest, sexiest clothes she had ever worn, chosen by her lifelong lover and husband, and waited for him to reappear. A red wig, heavy makeup and near naked clothes were involved.
When he pulled up, lowered the window, and smilingly asked for her offer, she gave him the facts, price and conditions. He willingly agreed. They drove home together for what they described as the “hottest sex of their lives.” They had never ever had sex with anyone else before or after they met at fourteen. They agreed to free themselves of all hang ups for this delight, promising never to throw any of it up to the other one in anger ever. Also, never to share with anyone what they had done.
They laughed hysterically and asked if I wanted them to describe the details. I told them I would just use my imagination. We all laughed until we cried tears of joy. They had searched for an answer that would not destroy the trust in their love and in their opinion, God had supplied it.
Note: For those of you that are appalled you might check your Holy Bible references for “Temple Prostitutes” for clarity.
Create a concept scenario to fit a fantasy for you and your lover. Make it up as you go. Find the sexiest things you are drawn to at the local dancer’s fashion shop. Visit a bigger city if you must. Forget your inhibitions. Gravity hits us all. Your lover already loves you and your body. Chill! You are not being compared to anyone else. This is strictly between the two of you.
This happened in 1991. I have learned over the years almost nothing happens by accident. I had occasion to visit their state a couple of years ago and when I inquired of them at their favorite restaurant and coffee shop they remembered me and told me that yes they still come in and bring their family with them. They laughed when they said “their PDA (public displays of affection) were still really like they were a couple of teenagers.” I was just so glad to hear it.
First loves and sexual experiences are times we seldom forget. I am thrilled that they were still “in love” and “playing with each other in public.” Good for them. Yes!
Keeping love alive is so very important. Little pats on the cheek or on the butt as we walk by them are gentle signs of affection. It never gets old. Never let the trials,
tribulations, and pressures of your daily life end your shared loving signs of affection. It truly will be the kiss of death if we allow it to be.
This simple story tells us so much. Share your fantasy foreplay fun concept with your trusted lover, inviting them to expand on what they might like. Discuss it in depth and even using loving touching and stokes to exhibit exactly “how” you want to be touched and played with. Do not hold back. Promise secrecy between you. People are often envious or outright jealous of others and their lives together. The more that know it, the quicker the gossip will spread. No one keeps a secret. If shared you might be subjected to public scorn as jealous people do that.
Never risk the love you have and open up to others about intimate details. People are hungry to know details. Actually, the secrecy builds trust between the two of you. Keep this above all of your rules. A new depth of closeness comes to light. You will be astounded how things change. Trust is a gift. Intimacy is a sacred delight from Heaven. Never squander yours in moments of attention getting with others. Only a foolish person would open themselves up to gossip.
If you are doing it right with only the rules the two of you have agreed upon there would be plenty to gossip about to the tongue wagging gossipmongers IF you shared. The Holy Bible even warns against them. Avoid them. Build trust. Build truth. Build your love to a heightened new fantastic exploding level. Smile more. It drives people crazy. Let them wonder. Enjoy! Begin asap. As soon as you possibly can. You will adore it.
There was an incredibly popular song years ago that was called Something To Talk About by Bonnie Raitt that was such a hot video and it will have you singing along. Amazing. Find it on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ58TVYNFro I would highly suggest you play it for your lover to inspire a “moment of foreplay.” God intended for us to participate in sex, Remember, it was a Gift From Heaven Above in the beginning of the Creation of Man and Woman for Man. Sex from God. What a concept! Try some Fantasy Foreplay Fun. Why not? God sanctioned true love and hot sex! Amen to that.
Remember when you first fell in love and how excited you were during the day to get back to your lover that evening or on the weekend? Think about those tiny bubbles of love you felt running through your chest area every single time you thought of them. That my friends is anticipation. Delights of things to come in this case. All it takes is a little planning and effort and deliberately setting aside the time for childless occasions.
Encourage grandparent visiting or trade offs with friends. They keep yours overnight and the next time you keep theirs. Kids love going somewhere new and think it is just for them. Wonderful! We want them to feel special. Then it is time for the two of you to feel special as well.
Be sure and include sexy music you both “fire up” to that leads to heightened sexual arousal and experiences. I only recently came across a Trace Adkins video called “Hot Mama” that was mind blowing for the average couple. Find it on youtube.com and see for yourself.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNPEbHoCxNg
It was his official video.
One of the verses says and I quote it from Trace Adkins video:
One hot mama
You turn me on
Let’s turn it up
And turn this room into a sauna
One hot mama
Oh, what you say babe
You wanna?
The flashes of the mother going from typical “mom jeans” into such sexy clothes literally screaming for sex are just mind blowing. Take a look for yourself. You might use it as a starter and test it out for yourself and your lover. Just see what results you get. I bet u will be in shock.
For those of you that are riddled with insecurities and shame about your body please realize your lover has seen your body for awhile and they actually like it. They love it more specifically. Gravity hits all of us. Butts sag and other things, even in skinny people. Who cares?
We are not sharing it so your lover will want to be with the actress. We are sharing it for the joy of dressing up for sexy times. Why not? People become bored with the missionary position and very little titillating conversation. Take the time, play it out, rejoice in what you have. Make it fun, fantastic, and the best foreplay ever in your love relationship. What do you have to lose?
Nothing. Plan a little. Call your man or text him and invite him to a “hot night in the old town tonight.” This is a phrase used by old people over 60 in their youth. It is self-explanatory.
OR invite him to come to lingerie shops with you or get a catalog and share it together with an hour of touchy, feely, tactile hands-on exploration of your bodies. It could be a Heavenly set of moments with simply a catalog. Only the time spent will tell you what an excellent choice it was.
If you are a man reading this, why not share the concept with your lover of any length of time and see if any of this arouses her or him for a future rendezvous. Plan and orchestra. Easy breezy.
Do not let your age bother you one single bit. We all age. It is inevitable. So what? The entire concept of Fantasy Foreplay Fun came into being as so many clients were considering divorce and missed the hot sex and were on the verge of ditching the marriage for fun times, finally. What a waste that would be! After all of these years of going through so much and surviving with your family plus your true love intact, it would be such a sorrow for the entire family. Divorce is never as great as it is made out to be in the movies or on television. It is so sad.
Families disintegrating over lack of sex? How stupid is that? The true love started with the fascination of hot sex, exploring each other’s bodies, playing with wild and explicit things never experienced before, especially if we were very young. Just the thought of having someone “legal” we married to try out bizarre and crazy positions and various states of undress at awkward times or sneaking in a little afternoon delight was so exciting to us in the very beginning of our loves. Why in Heaven’s name would we give it up after all these years? That truly would be insane.
Just because we got busy and lazy and maybe even “fed up” and withhold sex are poor excuses to end or limit the joy we once felt for our lover. Remember the good times, the good days, the memorable occasions of celebrating the joys of married life. As well as the birth of our children, the growth of our careers and family and the locations we shared that love over the years.
Surely the best of it all is worth saving by trying some new, fresh, wild and crazy options out before tossing the entire life you have shared for so long. Why not rejoice in that love and reinvent the sex entirely, making it freer, much more explicit, and fun in amazing, comfortable, joy-filled ways we never allowed ourselves in the beginning when we were so anxious to prove ourselves one to the other. Now we know each other well. We know what we have experienced together and often the children are growing up and leaving home. What a marvelous time to begin, once again to love, adore, pursue, and cherish each other, especially when we will be able to enjoy a measure of privacy so we may have sex anywhere in our home’s Sacred Space we choose to. Even parading naked through the house if we are of a mind to do that. Why not? Why indeed? Be sure to turn off your ADT so you won’t be shocking anyone’s modesty!
Hot sex coming up. The results will be followed by your personal sexual planning of a joyful sexual explosion. Isn’t it time for a change up? I beg you to create fresh options. Celebrate the love you already are invested in. You once did willingly, and thrilled to do so. There is only a little extra time and thought involved. You may even get hot and bothered just with the planning of it all. Go for it! Make it one of those “these are the moments we cherish.” I applaud you.
HOT TIP: Promise each other to always forgive hurts against one another. Nothing is worth ending the love for. As you play and expand your fantasy foreplay you build trust. Treasure it!
Fortunately, as we age we lose most of our inhibition and uptight natures, especially for sex. Old age has so many benefits. No excuses. No apologies. Dress like you want, act as you please.
Others objections are often rooted in their jealousy, envy or strife. Just part of the 7 deadly sins we must avoid.
When we are totally healed any good therapist worth their salt will tell you not to give a damn what others say about you. They do not pay your bills. They do not live our lives. Remember that the next time someone says something hurtful to you.
In fact, if they have the audacity to insult you simply look deeply into their eyes and say “The ignorance of some people NEVER CEASES TO AMAZE ME!” Then walk away. Let them think on that.
Get every bit as wild as you desire to be in dressing the part. This, after all is a High-Priced Call Girl Fantasy. Use your makeup generously and add jewelry if you want to. Each and every single piece of your costume jewels and all will provide lots of extra excitement just having it removed for the heightening of the sexual energies. Anticipation is what we are building for the big hurrah!
Search your closets for things you never considered using to strip off for loving play and hot sex. Things that excite men and women are just the concept of removing all those layers of fancy fabric, jewelry, panties if you are wearing exotic ones, and getting right down to it. You are what they desire. You have proven that with devotion of time and love for the length of time you have shared together. Having them adore undressing you in a new and thrilling way is nothing but pure joy and the fantasy part of all of this makes it fresh and fun, reigniting your lust, one for the other.
And above all else once you get down to all of your bare basics of lady parts you want to ask them to begin to let you remove their clothing, ever so slowly, building hot sexual desire, and intriguing them even more. That is what it is all about. The Call Girl concept is just for the fun of it, yet, it is a fantasy many think of often. Make it work for u and specially make it work for the both of you. Enjoy!
I hope you have enjoyed my first E-Book, Sex With a High-Priced Call Girl. This is my breakout story prompted by my madly in love clients that did not want to “try out” someone else, prayed over it, and they felt God Himself shared each of their concepts to “reinvent” their love and NOT need anyone else in their love, or possibly ending it.
Each month in the future I will be sharing a brand-new fresh E-Book on Fantasy Foreplay Fun for True Love and Hot Sex. I would be honored if you become one of my subscribers and treat yourself to a new set of options monthly for merely $9.99, delivered instantly. You may even pay in advance before it is released so you will have it on the way for that foreplay filled with fantasy and fun.
Simply reading these concepts with your lover will incite sexuality and has the potential to build to a “fever pitch” for the both of you. Wouldn’t that be great?
I invite you back weekly to my website www.fantasyforeplayfun.com as I will post random sexy fantasies in my BLOG here on my site. Simply for your sexy pleasure.
Remember God inspired me to share these things. He gave us our start in Love, Sex and Family, the fruits of our efforts of loving someone completely, totally and sharing True Love and Hot Sex. I encourage you to benefit in every way, shape, form and fashion you have available to you.
Remember your mind is the largest sexual organ your body possesses. You are only limited by your mind, and it is endless. What do you say? Wanna?
God bless each of you on a daily basis as you strive to live and love and serve Him and Jesus our Christ, through the Divine Holy Spirit of Jesus. Or Buddha, Allah, or Ganesh, or whatever name you use to call upon your Creator God.
Amen.
Lovingly shared,
ALEX SHAW
PS.: If you have positive comments and exhilarating results please feel free to share them with me at Alex@fantasyforeplayfun.com
No haters please or filthy or coarse words. Leave that to other’s imaginations.
IF you have suggestions for fantasies for future E-Books you would like to have me consider writing please do so. Not sicko stuff please. This is just for the sharing of fun, fantasy, foreplay among friends anonymously. Isn’t it time for some new joy?
