NOVEMBER 2023
Dear Friends, Globally:
Save True Love with Hot Sex!!!
And on the 6th Day God Jehovah, Creator God created man and woman. He gave them the gift of procreation, having offspring. This translates to Sex.
IF you are appalled, please toss me.
SEX is a fact of life since the beginning of mankind and womankind’s creation. It was not only a way to have children, it was also a way for each man and woman that loved one another, to become physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually intimate. Intimacy was another gift from God.
At 76, God has leaned on me to come out of my Pentecostal Prudishness, Self-inflicted through years of emotional withdrawal after experiencing sexual abuse as a child. I thought IF I became “Holy enough” I would not have to deal with my emotions and heal them. Wrong! I have spent an adult lifetime never ever discussing Sex or thinking about it unless I was sharing intimacy with the love of my life.
In my spiritual counseling work since 1975 I have met thousands of women that have been beaten, raped, sexually abused, sexually assaulted, and verbally abused as well. God has encouraged me that my calling is to help women escape from the PTSD/flashbacks of these tragic circumstances and heal, once and for all, and live and embrace the life they were intended by God to have and embrace the love that was their God given right from birth, that has been stolen from them. For them finally to embrace the innocence and intimacy that was stolen from them as well.
Through prayers and setting their boundaries and embracing who they were meant to be so many of them have been able to heal. This is my purpose and has been for over 50 years. I want women to be set free to be what was their God Given Birthright of Love and Sex, with zero shame or guilt attached to it.
In the future, please expect to see more references to healthy sex–not porn–from me, and how it affects our relationships.
1 in 10 women I counsel with are on the verge of abandoning a 10- to 40-year relationship because a life without sex has become intolerable. These women love their family, adore their children, do NOT want to destroy the family unit they have worked for decades to build, and still care deeply for their mate, but have been cast aside for drinking, pot smoking good old boy buddy’s mentality that consumes their time, willingly so of their mate with sports, fishing, television events, late nights being absent from them, motorcycle road trips without them, and a zillion other reasons men seem to “NEED” to “FEEL LIKE A MAN.”
“These actions seem to be a validation of macho, manly, masculine energies stating that “I am a man!” to others, mostly men. Men seem to revel in this since the 60’s. Worse, they set this example for their sons to follow. Plus, their daughters “see” that this is the way men treat women when they love them. Primarily ignoring them.
It only gets worse, and more women desire to leave their love because of this.All of this translates to women feeling abandoned and caught in a crossfire of desperation, longingly feeling unloved, unwanted, old, rejected and insignificant.They do NOT want to break the “Bond of Trust” and have someone else.
They WANT THEIR OLD LOVE BACK!
Diabetes and inability to have sex are no longer an excuse. We have medications and procedures for such things. Mental and physical laziness is no longer an excuse. Giving up is no longer an option IF men want to hold on to their wife and the love that has brought them through years of life and the blessings of their family.
God has hounded me for over five years to create inspirations for women to begin “Recapturing the Sparks” as the Kabbalah, the 72 Names of Creator God describes coming back to life in your soul, for their sex lives.
God wants women to begin to FEEL LIKE THE WOMAN HE CREATED THEM TO BE, IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM.
I have avoided this for years simply because who wants rejection and hate mail?
God told me recently, “If hate mail bothers you so much, just the thought of it, then why open it?” Well, I never thought of such a thing. God released me from future rejection. He reminded me that I can delete or “hide” comments of other’s judgement. Wow!!! Apparently, I am learning new things daily even at 76 years old!
Now, before I get any older I am going to offer concepts for fresh new beginnings, fun things to share with your lover, costuming, lighting, locations for sexual intrigue and adding mystery back into your sex life. Mine will be inspirations only, not details of “how to” which I will leave to you and your mate. That is NOT my job!
Here and NOW, I am launching my new God inspired website called www.fantasyforeplayfun.com.
Here, you will find E-books on the same variety of topics for you to enjoy in the comfort of your own home, hopefully with you and your partner of so many years and you can begin “Recapturing the Sparks” of what was the sexual chemistry that attracted you two together in the beginning!
Of course, you do not only have to be rebuilding your existing love, for those of you that would like to just “Create Sexual Sparks” in your love life, this is for you as well.
Over the past years since God dropped this concept into my brain, I have seen Oprah, Maria Shriver (Schwarzenegger), and every morning talk show host and hostess including Hoda and Jenna bring up sex (tastefully, of course), but especially Baby Boomer Sex and how more than ever people are looking for fresh ideas, concepts, and new enlightenment on this topic. I feel this has been my confirmation to put this together just for the benefit, fun, delight and enjoyment of loving couples.
I am looking forward to creating a new community of global friends that are curious about what’s new for your sex life.
Love me or hate me, judge me, or hear some new fun things you might enjoy. The choice is all yours!
Well, here goes…
We are blasting off with an Oprah team article of How Fall Affects Your Sex Life. Perfect timing for it here in mid-November 2023.Oprah’s team has some thoughts on your sex life for Autumn. http://www.oprah.com/health_…/how-fall-affects-your-sex-life
Thank you, Oprah Winfrey, and your blest team, for sharing all of these articles for those that need a boost in their love life. God bless each of you always.
I am looking forward to seeing you here on www.fantasyforeplayfun.com in the future.
Fresh postings for free and new E-books will be posted for purchase monthly.
Love of God and Jesus to each of you daily, and miracles aplenty,
Alex Shaw